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QUOTE: "Do not judge me by my success, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again." (Nelson Mandela)
The work of an educator is profoundly meaningful, but it is also profoundly demanding. Every day, teachers and administrators alike face shifting expectations, behavioral challenges, and the emotional weight of guiding students through not only academics, but life itself. It is no wonder that resilience—the ability to adapt positively in the face of adversity--stands as one of the most critical needs in education today. Psychologist Martin Seligman, often called the father of Positive Psychology, describes resilience as more than simply bouncing back from hardship. His research shows that resilient people reinterpret setbacks as temporary, specific, and solvable. Instead of collapsing under the weight of challenges, they develop the cognitive and emotional flexibility to see struggles as opportunities for growth. This mindset doesn’t erase stress or difficulty, but it changes how we carry those burdens. Recognizing the Symptoms of Needing Resilience So how do you know when your own resilience tank is running low? For educators, the signs often appear gradually, then all at once:
A Strategy You Can Use Right Now: The ABCDE Model Martin Seligman’s ABCDE model is a structured way to rebuild resilience in real time by challenging negative thought patterns. It’s designed to identify and dispute negative, pessimistic beliefs so that you can become more optimistic and resilient. Here’s how you can use it today in your classroom or principal’s office:
Why This Matters Resilience isn’t about toughing it out or pretending everything is fine. It’s about seeing reality clearly—acknowledging the adversity without being consumed by it—and then making space for possibility. For educators, this mindset not only protects your well-being but also models for students how to face life’s inevitable challenges with courage and flexibility. Your resilience is not infinite, but it is renewable. By practicing Seligman’s ABCDE model and catching yourself in moments of rigid or self-defeating thinking, you equip yourself to thrive—not just survive—in the noble calling of education. DAD JOKE: What has more lives than a cat? A frog, because it croaks every day.
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